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Preview! The Seven Secrets of the Prolific Cover

Here's the draft cover for my new book, The Seven Secrets of the Prolific: The Definitive Guide to Overcoming Procrastination, Perfectionism and Writer's Block. I love it! The book will be out in August.

The Lifelong Activist now online!

I'm very pleased to announce that the entire text to my book The Lifelong Activist: How to Change the World Without Losing Your Way (Lantern Books, 2006) can now be found at www.lifelongactivist.com. For those who aren't familiar with it, the book is a self-help guide for activists, organizers, educators, ...

Perfectionism and Human Relations

Or, more specifically: sex. I mainly write on procrastination and perfectionism in one's work, but the same principles apply in other parts of our lives. Here's Andrew Sullivan nailing it (so to speak) relative to perfectionism in our sex lives: "If your standard is never to commit a venial sin, ...

How Much Does Labeling Hurt?

How much does it hurt when parents or others unfairly label us? An acquaintance recently told about how, after her 13-year-old daughter broke her wrist playing sports, her Dad, who had taken her to the hospital, responded to her expressions of pain by telling her, "Don't be a wimp." Later, ...

The Perils of Overgiving

There are plenty of selfish people in the world - no doubt. But most of the people I encounter in my workshops and coaching have the opposite problem - they're overgivers, perennially sacrificing their needs and missions to others'. That's a much nobler problem, but still a problem. Here's what ...

Emo About the Commute

this guy sounds pretty emo about his commute, but I actually agree with him 100%. commuting is dreadful and cars are the most overrated appliance. The less I drive, the less I want to drive.

Stephen Hawking on Leveraging Your Strengths

In this interview, Hawking gives the same basic advice I hear from successful people in every field: don't worry about your weaknesses or "deficits," focus on leveraging your strengths: "My advice to other disabled people would be, concentrate on things your disability doesn’t prevent you doing well, and don’t regret ...

Greetings Greenhorn Connecters!

Happy to see you here - feel free to browse, kick the tires, etc. If you have questions or comments, please leave them in the comments box or feel free to email me. Thanks! Hillary

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